ALL I'm sayin is...

Well well well WHAT A DAY!  Ok so it started out fairly good.  Better than the day before I must say.  ;)  For reasons I will not brag about.  But let's just say it was a much QUIETER morning.

Life got a little loco after oh about 4pm.  Haylee was due to go to her acting class tonight at the academy and Tim was picking her up.  He calls me at about 4:30 and is furious!  Apparently Haylee decided to SNEAK a pair of scissors and her best friend Carly into the girls bathroom at school and talk Carly into CUTTING OFF HER HAIR.  Oh my gosh!  I honestly knew this would happen, but I kind of figured that she was past this stage, ya know?  5, almost 6 years old and WELL knowledgeable in the respect of CAUSE and EFFECT.  Who knew?!

So yeah, Tim...furious {that's a really low key word for it I think, LOL!}...called me and told me the whole incident.  I guess you would have to know...Haylee has been REALLY sneaky lately.  I think it's the age, but she will sneak candy and stuff into her room and I will catch her in there and I just don't like that.  She also is a HUGE follower.  So if Carly jumped off a bridge, most likely Haylee would be RIGHT behind her.  I really just hope & PRAY that this changes.  I need her to be a LEADER, not a follower.  Ughh....no one ever told me parenting was this difficult!  LOL!

I have my facebook status as "I'm soooo only having ONE kid...this one is too much to handle".  And even though I said it to be funny...sometimes it's true.  I have always said {Tim and I have always said}...TWO.  We want at least 2 kids.  But lately I am just NOT feeling ready.  I feel that life can be so complicated as it stands now, why add more complication {I know that sounds horrible...a child is NOT a complication but a BLESSING.  But anything could happen and it could be a burden.  I hope I am not coming off strong here or offending anyone...just try to understand.}.  Haylee is a great kid.  She does and will continue to make stupid decisions in life.  I will ALWAYS love her, no matter what she does.  But I just cannot picture myself with another one at this point.  Maybe in a few more years?  I know one thing, it will be when I {and Tim of course} am READY.

Sorry...I guess I needed to vent a bit.  ;) So to finish the Haylee story - Tim punished her {no tv or toys} and went to Great Clips to get a bob haircut.  From what I can tell it looks ok.  

"From what I can tell" means...I dropped Haylee off at school at 7:40am and went to work from 8am to 5:40pm and went straight to SCHOOL to finish my final project.  Until 9:30pm.  Now I am home and I should be cleaning because my friends are coming over tomorrow night for a GIRLS night at my place...but yea, I'm too tired.  ;)  Tim did mop the kitchen for me, for that I am grateful.  :)  Tomorrow on my lunch I'll come home and do the rest {not much else}.  

Tim is flying out to San Fran VERRRRRY early in the morning and Haylee and I have to take him to the airport, then come home and get ready for school & work.  Haylee has a field trip to the Zoo.  She is so stoked.  Then after school/work, my 2 girlfriends are coming over and we're going to have chicken asado and MARGARITAS!  Yay!!!!  I am SOOOOOOOO ready.  :))  We will probably play Guitar Hero and go in the hot tub.  Hopefully everything is perfect.....

Thanks for listening to me rant.  I will post a pic of Haylee's  new 'do this weekend {Tim will have the laptop while he's gone!  So Sad!  It's the only home computer we have!}.  Bye for now!